{"id":37728,"date":"2022-01-13T18:39:51","date_gmt":"2022-01-13T10:39:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/?p=37728"},"modified":"2022-01-13T18:40:23","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T10:40:23","slug":"fob0489-bad-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/?p=37728","title":{"rendered":"FOB0489: Bad Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u4eca\u671d\u53cb\u9054\u306b\u4f1a\u3044\u307e\u3057\u3066\u3001\u4ed5\u4e8b\u3092\u3084\u308a\u307e\u3057\u305f\u3002\u305d\u3057\u3066\u3001\u5bb6\u306e\u4e8b\u3092\u3057\u307e\u3057\u305f\u3002\u75b2\u308c\u305f\u3002\u660e\u65e5\u304b\u3089\u3001\u3069\u3093\u3069\u3093\u904b\u52d5\u3057\u307e\u3059\uff01\u9811\u5f35\u308a\u307e\u3059\uff01<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u4eca\u5929\u65e9\u4e0a\u5148\u548c\u670b\u53cb\u89c1\u9762\u518d\u4e0a\u73ed\uff01\u4e0b\u73ed\u540e\u5904\u7406\u597d\u591a\u7410\u788e\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u597d\u591a\u6240\u8c13\u7684\u4e13\u5bb6\uff0c\u4eb2\u670b\u621a\u53cb\uff0c\u8fd8\u6709\u4e0d\u9760\u8c31\u7684\u4e92\u8054\u7f51\u4e0a\u5f97\u5230\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u90fd\u4e0d\u80fd\u76f8\u4fe1\u3002\u56e0\u4e3a\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u5904\u5883\u548c\u573a\u666f\u90fd\u4e0d\u4e00\u6837\u3002\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u4e0d\u4e00\u6837\u3002\u4eca\u5929\u628a\u6700\u540e\u7684Happiness\u65f6\u95f4\u7528\u5b8c\u4e86\u3002\u8981\u7ee7\u7eed\u52aa\u529b\uff01<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.&#8221; Henri Nouwen<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1435-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Imparting insurance knowledge!\" class=\"wp-image-37729\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1435-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1435-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1435-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Imparting insurance knowledge!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1436-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Catching up with JR!\" class=\"wp-image-37730\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1436-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1436-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1436-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Catching up with JR!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1437-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Lunch!\" class=\"wp-image-37731\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1437-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1437-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1437-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Lunch!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1439-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Nice Maserati!\" class=\"wp-image-37732\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1439-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1439-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption>Nice Maserati!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1442-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Eating my favourite Raspberry ripple ice cream on a hot day!\" class=\"wp-image-37733\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1442-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1442-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1442-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Eating my favourite Raspberry ripple ice cream on a hot day!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1443-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Ouch! Need to be careful!\" class=\"wp-image-37734\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1443-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1443-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1443-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Ouch! Need to be careful!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1444-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Clearing 19 months of letters...\" class=\"wp-image-37735\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1444-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1444-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1444-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Clearing 19 months of letters&#8230;<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1445-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Dinner!\" class=\"wp-image-37736\" srcset=\"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1445-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1445-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/IMG_1445-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Dinner!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u4eca\u671d\u53cb\u9054\u306b\u4f1a\u3044\u307e\u3057\u3066\u3001\u4ed5\u4e8b\u3092\u3084\u308a\u307e\u3057\u305f\u3002\u305d\u3057\u3066\u3001\u5bb6\u306e\u4e8b\u3092\u3057\u307e\u3057\u305f\u3002\u75b2\u308c\u305f\u3002\u660e\u65e5\u304b\u3089\u3001\u3069\u3093\u3069\u3093\u904b\u52d5\u3057\u307e\u3059\uff01\u9811\u5f35\u308a\u307e\u3059\uff01 \u4eca\u5929\u65e9\u4e0a\u5148\u548c\u670b\u53cb\u89c1\u9762\u518d\u4e0a\u73ed\uff01\u4e0b\u73ed\u540e\u5904\u7406\u597d\u591a\u7410\u788e\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u597d\u591a\u6240\u8c13\u7684\u4e13\u5bb6\uff0c\u4eb2\u670b\u621a\u53cb\uff0c\u8fd8\u6709\u4e0d\u9760\u8c31\u7684\u4e92\u8054\u7f51\u4e0a\u5f97\u5230\u7684\u4fe1\u606f\u90fd\u4e0d\u80fd\u76f8\u4fe1\u3002\u56e0\u4e3a\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u5904\u5883\u548c\u573a\u666f\u90fd\u4e0d\u4e00\u6837\u3002\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u4e0d\u4e00\u6837\u3002\u4eca\u5929\u628a\u6700\u540e\u7684Happiness\u65f6\u95f4\u7528\u5b8c\u4e86\u3002\u8981\u7ee7\u7eed\u52aa\u529b\uff01 &#8220;When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.&#8221; Henri Nouwen<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,7,11],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"entry","1":"post","2":"publish","3":"author-renzhi-huang","4":"post-37728","6":"format-standard","7":"category-entertainment","8":"category-foto","9":"category-heybaby"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37728","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=37728"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37728\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37737,"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37728\/revisions\/37737"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=37728"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=37728"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=37728"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}