{"id":810,"date":"2008-07-23T10:34:23","date_gmt":"2008-07-23T02:34:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/huangrenzhi.wordpress.com\/2008\/07\/23\/tsd-day372-shaghai-ed-last-day-in-shanghai"},"modified":"2008-07-23T10:34:23","modified_gmt":"2008-07-23T02:34:23","slug":"tsd-day372-shaghai-ed-last-day-in-shanghai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/huangrenzhi.com\/?p=810","title":{"rendered":"TSD Day372: Shaghai-ed: Last Day in Shanghai"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"msgcns!4568569FFC21DFBC!4715\" class=\"bvMsg\">\n<div><font size=\"3\">Today marks my last day of the NOC(NUS Overseas College)\u00a0program. <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">I am leaving <\/font><font size=\"3\">for Singapore tomorrow morning. While packing my bag, <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">I\u00a0had a strange feeling that I never felt before&#8230; <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><strong><font size=\"3\">The Cycle&#8230;<\/font><\/strong><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">I can still remember myself coming into this apartment in July 2007, <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">getting ready to <\/font><font size=\"3\">take on anything in my way&#8230; Throughout this year, <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">I have\u00a0been through and grew from <\/font><font size=\"3\">a variety of incidents and learning <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">along the way to where I am now. (Not that I am\u00a0very <\/font><font size=\"3\">experienced, <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">but I guess I have became much better.)<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">Now that I am packing my bag, I could feel what my seniors felt while <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">they were packing <\/font><font size=\"3\">their bags to\u00a0go back to Singapore. This strange <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">feeling <\/font><font size=\"3\">whelmed up inside me and\u00a0I <\/font><font size=\"3\">have to admit that I\u00a0dropped a <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">tear or two. <\/font><font size=\"3\">It&#8217;s the feeling of leaving what you have built <\/font><font size=\"3\">up here <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">behind&#8230;<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><strong><font size=\"3\">What I have learnt:<\/font><\/strong><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">&#8211; Ask at least 3 persons on ANYTHING you\u00a0are unsure<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">Especially\u00a0useful on directions. Never trust\u00a0completely what one person <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">says. <\/font><font size=\"3\">even if the <\/font><font size=\"3\">person means no harm, he\/she may not know enough\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">information <\/font><font size=\"3\">to give you the full picture.<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">&#8211; Patience<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">You have to live with the\u00a0bureaucracy here in China. because the <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">system <\/font><font size=\"3\">is like <\/font><font size=\"3\">that and the <\/font><font size=\"3\">people are very used to the system&#8230; <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">of waiting for <\/font><font size=\"3\">a long time for <\/font><font size=\"3\">procedures to be done.<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">&#8211; Negotiate<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">You can negotiate just about ANYTHING in China! Simply because <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">of the <\/font><font size=\"3\">fact <\/font><font size=\"3\">that everything <\/font><font size=\"3\">allows some flexiblity. even in the <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">interpretation of <\/font><font size=\"3\">the law. <\/font><font size=\"3\">That is why, we can bargain for the <\/font><font size=\"3\">best <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">price for products. You <\/font><font size=\"3\">can even talk <\/font><font size=\"3\">your way round getting a <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">cheaper fare for taxi rides. <\/font><font size=\"3\">I feel <\/font><font size=\"3\">that is a good thing <\/font><font size=\"3\">about China&#8230; <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">if you know how to leverage and not <\/font><font size=\"3\">get leveraged.<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\"><\/font>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div>\n<div><strong><em><font size=\"3\">&quot;Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.&quot; <\/font><\/em><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.brainyquote.com\/quotes\/authors\/d\/dale_carnegie.html\"><strong><em><font size=\"3\">Dale Carnegie<\/font><\/em><\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">\u00a0<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">&#8211; About Shanghainese (In general)<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">They tend to be very fast paced and inpatient (on the contrary <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">to the <\/font><font size=\"3\">above <\/font><font size=\"3\">point).\u00a0They are <\/font><font size=\"3\">also very goal oriented, which is very <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">much like <\/font><font size=\"3\">me, getting <\/font><font size=\"3\">things done is a must! hehe!\u00a0<\/font><font size=\"3\">And! <\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">Shanghainese people are <\/font><font size=\"3\">very pretty! (REALLY!)<\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\"><\/font>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\"><\/font>\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\"><strong>Farewell Dinner (Thanks Yvon!)<\/strong><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font size=\"3\">Had the farewell dinner at Pin Chuan. 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I am leaving for Singapore tomorrow morning. 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